Why I Enjoy Being a Part-Time Working Mom
As much as I love being home with my kids, I’ve been getting the itch to go back to work part time. After having Blaire, I was so grateful to be able to stay home with both kids, but I would be lying if I said I didn’t miss the thrill of closing a deal or some adult interaction. After several discussions with my husband, we both decided that it would be great for my mental health if I went back to work part time. I’ve been in the insurance industry for as long as I can remember (10 years and counting) and one of the reasons I chose this career was because I wanted the ability to be a part-time working mom when I had my kids. Fast forward to now, I finally took the leap and I’m so happy I did! I work for a great local company three days a week and have found it so important to have my own identity separate from my responsibilities at home. Over the years, I have had success in many aspects of my career both personally and professionally. Society puts so much pressure on us moms to have it altogether. Truth be told, I felt like I was starting to lose the “Heidi” in me. Being a mom is the greatest gift and role of all, but I’ve also found that having my career (blogging as well) brings me fulfillment and happiness, which makes me a better person and mother. As I’ve shared in previous blog posts, I struggle with anxiety. I have found that working part time has helped me tremendously. I enjoy having a job that keeps me personally busy besides what I do in my day-to-day life with my family. It also helps me from aimlessly scrolling social media, which has been huge for me.
Work-life balance is attainable. My work schedule allows me to have the perfect work-life balance. It’s made me feel like “Heidi” again but allows me to still be present with my kids. I feel a sense of balance in my life again. I still enjoy riding my Peloton in the morning, then heading to work, and entering mom mode once I leave. With my job, I can manage my energy and time so that I can feel fulfilled and engaged, allowing me to show up as my best self for my family. Having the best support system is also key. Having a husband, family and friends that support you is everything. Don’t be afraid to ask people for help or share how you’re feeling with your inner circle of people because it really does take a village.
Working part time has been a blessing for me. I’m able to still be present with my kids, work and keep up with my blog! I truly love connecting with so many moms on this platform. We truly are all in this together and I’m so appreciative of all the support! Blake and Blaire will always be my number one priority. I hope they will always value me as their mom knowing I followed my dreams and aspirations to make the best life possible for them. Never give up on yourselves. Whether you’re a stay at home or working mom, no one knows your children’s needs and wants better than you. Being a mom isn’t for the weak. It’s the best but most selfless job. You’re not a “bad mom” if you follow your dreams and do what makes you happy - never forget that!
